Life in reality is all about feelings. The way we feel in situations that can either leave us feeling scared and unprotected or situations that leave us feeling cared for, acknowledged and even sometimes admired. Crossing the proverbial bridge of feels from unsafe to safe, we sometimes need to discover the reasons as to why we feel the way we do.
Rape is a cause of personal vandalism. It leaves us questioning the reasons as to why such an event could have taken place. It jumbles up the way we use to feel prior to a particular incident.
Many grapple with the feelings that events such as these leaving them feeling insecure, scared and depressed for years after. These are extreme cases of abuse and in worse cases this can even lead to abnormalities such as agrophobia which is an intense fear and anxiety of being in a place a person may feel hard to escape from.
In cases of rape, a person feels that he or she has been vandalized both emotionally and physically. Here again feelings such as anxiety, fear of men or women alike, can hinder a person from progressing and living a normal functioning life. It is an infringement on another person that leaves the person feeling victimized.
The self is really in essence all aspects that form part of who you are as a person. It characterizes your character and is of course made up of many different facets such as the way you feel, your strengths, weaknesses and also your limitations. When we feel unsafe as individuals it is usually because our character was infringed upon by another person, an animal or an event that we had no control over what so ever.
In reality this is a healthy response although if caught, the natural course of action is to fight. In most extreme cases of abuse, this right is taken away suddenly from the victim. This leaves varying feelings of anger and resentment not only towards the perpetrator but also towards ourselves.
As thinking, feeling human beings, we oscillate between the extremities of a scale of feelings from positive to negative on a calibrated dial. In scared traumatized individuals the degrees of calibration become extended, leaving our feelings stretched passed their limits. This is something that requires understanding, in bringing our individual scale of feelings back into range.
Medication does relieve symptoms but communicative therapy is often the best course of action. Talking and keeping a person talking after shock is vital in achieving a constant flow of communication. This is vitally important when a person experiences extreme cases of shock and the sooner he or she has someone to express these feelings with, the sooner healing can pursue and a bridge built from feeling unsafe to safe can be achieved.
Rape is a cause of personal vandalism. It leaves us questioning the reasons as to why such an event could have taken place. It jumbles up the way we use to feel prior to a particular incident.
Many grapple with the feelings that events such as these leaving them feeling insecure, scared and depressed for years after. These are extreme cases of abuse and in worse cases this can even lead to abnormalities such as agrophobia which is an intense fear and anxiety of being in a place a person may feel hard to escape from.
In cases of rape, a person feels that he or she has been vandalized both emotionally and physically. Here again feelings such as anxiety, fear of men or women alike, can hinder a person from progressing and living a normal functioning life. It is an infringement on another person that leaves the person feeling victimized.
The self is really in essence all aspects that form part of who you are as a person. It characterizes your character and is of course made up of many different facets such as the way you feel, your strengths, weaknesses and also your limitations. When we feel unsafe as individuals it is usually because our character was infringed upon by another person, an animal or an event that we had no control over what so ever.
In reality this is a healthy response although if caught, the natural course of action is to fight. In most extreme cases of abuse, this right is taken away suddenly from the victim. This leaves varying feelings of anger and resentment not only towards the perpetrator but also towards ourselves.
As thinking, feeling human beings, we oscillate between the extremities of a scale of feelings from positive to negative on a calibrated dial. In scared traumatized individuals the degrees of calibration become extended, leaving our feelings stretched passed their limits. This is something that requires understanding, in bringing our individual scale of feelings back into range.
Medication does relieve symptoms but communicative therapy is often the best course of action. Talking and keeping a person talking after shock is vital in achieving a constant flow of communication. This is vitally important when a person experiences extreme cases of shock and the sooner he or she has someone to express these feelings with, the sooner healing can pursue and a bridge built from feeling unsafe to safe can be achieved.
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